Just came to say that I have been there with my own child when he was a teenager. I will never forget how he behaved for at least 2-3 years or the gross misrepresentation/delusion he had about his family, HOWEVER, with a amazing therapists, time, maturity, patience, letting go, lessons learned, and medication (him), our relationship has turned a 180 and I have my sweet boy back. My husband and I learned to keep quiet and non reactive, to be present, and to be good listeners as much as humanly possible. We really had to play the long game and it paid off. It's so hard to see your child in great pain and unable to regulate, but don't give up! You are not alone in this experience and I wish you peace.
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15 Dec 17:02
Thank you! This is very helpful. I’ve been using a slightly deflated Pilates ball but finally decided to treat myself to M/Body merch. 🎉